Dismissive attachment disorder is essentially the opposite of an anxiety attachment disorder. Dr. Silvi Saxena describes it as “independence to an extreme, not asking for help, setting a lot of boundaries, withdrawing from their partner when getting too close.” People who have dismissive attachment disorder often try to avoid forming an emotional connection or closeness with other people. It’s believed that dismissive-avoidant attachment occurs because “a baby or small child doesn’t get the attention or care they need from their parents or caregivers,” making them feel as if they have to be self-reliant. The danger with dismissive attachment disorder is a lack of connection and support around you when you need it. One may work with a therapist to try and prioritize honest and healthy communication with those around them. It is stressed that self-reliance is not a flaw. But when you find yourself in need of connection to someone else, it is always necessary to seek help. Read more about the disorder here.